"Aligning Perceptual Positions", by Connirae and Tamara Andreas, 1991.  This article describes a process that is especially impactful in enhancing our relationships and improving communication with others.  Aligning Perceptual Positions guides us in a series of simple inner shifts that can dramatically increase our natural ability to stand for ourselves, be compassionate towards others, and have access to wisdom regarding our own personal life situations.  Rather than give us specific solutions, this process brings us to a greater inner clarity so that solutions come to us.  This article includes a demonstration.